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		<title>By: Patricia</title>
		<link>http://johnhealdsblog.com/2009/04/13/love-they-neighbormy-arse/#comment-54335</link>
		<dc:creator>Patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 12:21:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello John  et al., I have been away from the page for months, having had a lot of &quot;Stuff&quot; going on, like a 96 year old mother-in-law who fell, broke her hip, then had a stroke. She&#039;s stable now so I&#039;m returning to the pleasures of cyberspace and needlework. Larry and I are hopeful we can travel again soon and are looking into cruising Alaska before it melts. Hopefully, pirates have not yet made it their next target. So, catch me up. When is Thingy due, is it a boy or a girl, and does Heidi still want a cross-stitched hooded towel or is she absolutely drowning in gifts? Is there a nursery theme or name I can add to the towel? Please reply asap! Patricia</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello John  et al., I have been away from the page for months, having had a lot of &#8220;Stuff&#8221; going on, like a 96 year old mother-in-law who fell, broke her hip, then had a stroke. She&#8217;s stable now so I&#8217;m returning to the pleasures of cyberspace and needlework. Larry and I are hopeful we can travel again soon and are looking into cruising Alaska before it melts. Hopefully, pirates have not yet made it their next target. So, catch me up. When is Thingy due, is it a boy or a girl, and does Heidi still want a cross-stitched hooded towel or is she absolutely drowning in gifts? Is there a nursery theme or name I can add to the towel? Please reply asap! Patricia</p>
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		<title>By: Mike &#38; Lori</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike &#38; Lori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 02:49:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John,

Our hearts go out to the cruise director.  He had no idea that poor man had just lost his wife.  He was just trying to be funny.  Thanks for being the great, understanding person that you are.  

As for the dress code and rude people.  It burns us up to be on a cruise and watch all the rude people!
There are so many too.  They cut in line, yell at guest services, their cabin steward,  the entertainment staff, or the CD.  They need to chill and enjoy their cruise!  

Ok, enough.  There will always be rude, obnoxious people in this world and there&#039;s really nothing we can do about them but ignore them.  

Our best to you, Heidi and Thingy!

Mike &amp; Lori</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John,</p>
<p>Our hearts go out to the cruise director.  He had no idea that poor man had just lost his wife.  He was just trying to be funny.  Thanks for being the great, understanding person that you are.  </p>
<p>As for the dress code and rude people.  It burns us up to be on a cruise and watch all the rude people!<br />
There are so many too.  They cut in line, yell at guest services, their cabin steward,  the entertainment staff, or the CD.  They need to chill and enjoy their cruise!  </p>
<p>Ok, enough.  There will always be rude, obnoxious people in this world and there&#8217;s really nothing we can do about them but ignore them.  </p>
<p>Our best to you, Heidi and Thingy!</p>
<p>Mike &amp; Lori</p>
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		<title>By: catrin</title>
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		<dc:creator>catrin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 00:34:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey John...(please reply)

Checking in from the Carnival Pride... those pictures do not do her justice!

Just a couple of comments...

one... we are still paying for access to your blog... it would be a wonderful thing if I could actually read the entire post, but admit I am skimming through it due to the internet charges.... 

two...they are not offering &quot;24 Kt Gold Plastic Ship on a Stick&quot; for Trivia Prizes this cruise!   I have won two trivia games so far ... (whoo hoo!).. and although the medals are cool... there is something elusive and very special about that silly golden trophy!   

I am glad that Steve received one for being on stage with Mark opening night... for I have traded my two medals for his trophy! 

Things are great... great cruise, terrific crew.... great time!
Catrin</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey John&#8230;(please reply)</p>
<p>Checking in from the Carnival Pride&#8230; those pictures do not do her justice!</p>
<p>Just a couple of comments&#8230;</p>
<p>one&#8230; we are still paying for access to your blog&#8230; it would be a wonderful thing if I could actually read the entire post, but admit I am skimming through it due to the internet charges&#8230;. </p>
<p>two&#8230;they are not offering &#8220;24 Kt Gold Plastic Ship on a Stick&#8221; for Trivia Prizes this cruise!   I have won two trivia games so far &#8230; (whoo hoo!).. and although the medals are cool&#8230; there is something elusive and very special about that silly golden trophy!   </p>
<p>I am glad that Steve received one for being on stage with Mark opening night&#8230; for I have traded my two medals for his trophy! </p>
<p>Things are great&#8230; great cruise, terrific crew&#8230;. great time!<br />
Catrin</p>
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		<title>By: Tina Tano</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tina Tano</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 17:33:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello John:

Well, I just got back from our cruise on Princess&#039; Caribbean Princess!  While we had a marvelous sunfilled time, I could not help comparing Princess to Carnival!  Although the Caribbean Princess was lovely, it by no means comes remotely close to the friendly, hospitible and generosity of Carnival!  Without making this blog entry too long, a few comparisons would be the crew.  I was talking to our room steward and he was explaining to me how he and others are treated by management.  A woman steward&#039;s brother had died that same day and Princess would not let her attend the funeral because she had signed up for 300 days of service.  And he went on and on giving many, many examples of how they are treated!  I was disgusted. 

Also, the complimentary beverage service on Princess did not exist!  For breakfast, we were served something they labeled orange juice.  It was actually ice water with a drop of orange coloring! The food in the formal dining room was average...If I had never cruised before on Carnival, RCI, NCL, etc. I would have been impressed however, I was not.  The shows were also sub-par.  Carnival Freedom&#039;s shows were spectacular, breathtaking and the best.  Princess&#039; were something from American Idol and the like.  One night they simply had crew members perform and most everyone in the audience eventually got up and walked out!

I am simply being critical just to let you know, I am by no means implying that we did not have a fabulous cruise...however, we will avoid Princess in the future and book only on Carnival first and RCI second!

One more thing, we really missed your style as a CD!  Our CD did not have the flair and style you do!

Take care,

Tina</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello John:</p>
<p>Well, I just got back from our cruise on Princess&#8217; Caribbean Princess!  While we had a marvelous sunfilled time, I could not help comparing Princess to Carnival!  Although the Caribbean Princess was lovely, it by no means comes remotely close to the friendly, hospitible and generosity of Carnival!  Without making this blog entry too long, a few comparisons would be the crew.  I was talking to our room steward and he was explaining to me how he and others are treated by management.  A woman steward&#8217;s brother had died that same day and Princess would not let her attend the funeral because she had signed up for 300 days of service.  And he went on and on giving many, many examples of how they are treated!  I was disgusted. </p>
<p>Also, the complimentary beverage service on Princess did not exist!  For breakfast, we were served something they labeled orange juice.  It was actually ice water with a drop of orange coloring! The food in the formal dining room was average&#8230;If I had never cruised before on Carnival, RCI, NCL, etc. I would have been impressed however, I was not.  The shows were also sub-par.  Carnival Freedom&#8217;s shows were spectacular, breathtaking and the best.  Princess&#8217; were something from American Idol and the like.  One night they simply had crew members perform and most everyone in the audience eventually got up and walked out!</p>
<p>I am simply being critical just to let you know, I am by no means implying that we did not have a fabulous cruise&#8230;however, we will avoid Princess in the future and book only on Carnival first and RCI second!</p>
<p>One more thing, we really missed your style as a CD!  Our CD did not have the flair and style you do!</p>
<p>Take care,</p>
<p>Tina</p>
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		<title>By: Stacey</title>
		<link>http://johnhealdsblog.com/2009/04/13/love-they-neighbormy-arse/#comment-54299</link>
		<dc:creator>Stacey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 16:21:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For my 30th birthday, I gave myself a present.  I promised myself I&#039;d &quot;call them as I see them&quot; from here on in.  I don&#039;t insult people, nor am I rude.  But when asked my opinion or put in a situation that requires my comments or input, I tactfully tell it like it is.  Therefore I don&#039;t have to give myself an ulcer worrying or wondering what people think about me.  If anyone was to presume to preach to me about their own beliefs being superior, or make comments about my weight, they&#039;d find themselves talking to the back of my head (as I walked away) in short order.  And the funny thing is, when it comes down to it, it only really takes ONE time (for most people) for the witless-preachers to understand the boundaries loud and clear.  

I realize that because of your job, you can&#039;t always do that, but STILL, just because your an employee doesn&#039;t mean you have to put up with people&#039;s comments (no matter how well intended, like the Herbal Tea fruitcakes).

Same goes for my weight...I&#039;m a bit &quot;round around the edges&quot;...but have regular check ups and exercise regularly and know I&#039;m healthy as a horse, so it&#039;s just cosmetic at this point.  Both things I&#039;m comfortable with, make me who I am, and I honestly *like* who I am.  I enjoy life, I am an active and loving parent, attentive wife and a fun loving, great person (if I do say so myself).  So I figure, if other people have a problem with me, , it&#039;s most likely THEIR problem.  

I read your blog with all it&#039;s wisdom, wit and great insight into people that you&#039;ve gained in your many travels and experiences, and I think you&#039;re *more* than a decent human being and a contributing member of society.  You&#039;ve got a global reputation for being the best at what you do, a loving wife and partner in life, and a Thingy on the way.  

Please do serve your snooty and judgemental neighbors large hunks of meat while in the mink underwear.   Serves the snobs right.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For my 30th birthday, I gave myself a present.  I promised myself I&#8217;d &#8220;call them as I see them&#8221; from here on in.  I don&#8217;t insult people, nor am I rude.  But when asked my opinion or put in a situation that requires my comments or input, I tactfully tell it like it is.  Therefore I don&#8217;t have to give myself an ulcer worrying or wondering what people think about me.  If anyone was to presume to preach to me about their own beliefs being superior, or make comments about my weight, they&#8217;d find themselves talking to the back of my head (as I walked away) in short order.  And the funny thing is, when it comes down to it, it only really takes ONE time (for most people) for the witless-preachers to understand the boundaries loud and clear.  </p>
<p>I realize that because of your job, you can&#8217;t always do that, but STILL, just because your an employee doesn&#8217;t mean you have to put up with people&#8217;s comments (no matter how well intended, like the Herbal Tea fruitcakes).</p>
<p>Same goes for my weight&#8230;I&#8217;m a bit &#8220;round around the edges&#8221;&#8230;but have regular check ups and exercise regularly and know I&#8217;m healthy as a horse, so it&#8217;s just cosmetic at this point.  Both things I&#8217;m comfortable with, make me who I am, and I honestly *like* who I am.  I enjoy life, I am an active and loving parent, attentive wife and a fun loving, great person (if I do say so myself).  So I figure, if other people have a problem with me, , it&#8217;s most likely THEIR problem.  </p>
<p>I read your blog with all it&#8217;s wisdom, wit and great insight into people that you&#8217;ve gained in your many travels and experiences, and I think you&#8217;re *more* than a decent human being and a contributing member of society.  You&#8217;ve got a global reputation for being the best at what you do, a loving wife and partner in life, and a Thingy on the way.  </p>
<p>Please do serve your snooty and judgemental neighbors large hunks of meat while in the mink underwear.   Serves the snobs right.</p>
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		<title>By: rocknrollgal109</title>
		<link>http://johnhealdsblog.com/2009/04/13/love-they-neighbormy-arse/#comment-54297</link>
		<dc:creator>rocknrollgal109</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 14:11:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey I loved the joke about the polar bear...I laughed so hard that I almost fell out of my chair. Come on people lighten up...just cause their vegans doesn&#039;t mean that you give up your sense of humor. I&#039;m really enjoying the early saver rate that CCL has it really given people the opportunity to see what some of us have known for years...cruising with Carnival is just plain fun! The nay sayers just don&#039;t know what they are missing! Rock on John.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey I loved the joke about the polar bear&#8230;I laughed so hard that I almost fell out of my chair. Come on people lighten up&#8230;just cause their vegans doesn&#8217;t mean that you give up your sense of humor. I&#8217;m really enjoying the early saver rate that CCL has it really given people the opportunity to see what some of us have known for years&#8230;cruising with Carnival is just plain fun! The nay sayers just don&#8217;t know what they are missing! Rock on John.</p>
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		<title>By: Irene Garner</title>
		<link>http://johnhealdsblog.com/2009/04/13/love-they-neighbormy-arse/#comment-54296</link>
		<dc:creator>Irene Garner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 13:51:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear John....Please reply

Just got back from our weekend cruise to Mexico, on the Carnival Paradise. We had another great cruise thanks to Carnival, and their wonderful staff. I want to thank the O2 director, Jeanette on the Carnival Destiny who passed along my grandson&#039;s name to the O2 director, Sean on Carnival Paradise, so that when my grandson arrived at the O2 club he was expected, and was warmly welcomed. He was allowed to join in all the O2 activities for the whole weekend even though he turned 18 on the 2nd day. He made lots of new friends.

I am still catching up on the blogs I missed over the weekend but I have noticed that you were kind enough to acknowledge my request for something special for my grandson on his birthday. Unfortunately the message didn&#039;t get through to the staff on the Carnival Paradise as there was nothing there for him. We didn&#039;t get to meet our room steward, so I had no chance to ask him or her if there was a gift from you...but I do appreciate the fact that you did try.

Anyway, back to work today so I can earn some money for my next cruise.

Thanks again....Irene Garner
(Hooked on Cruising)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear John&#8230;.Please reply</p>
<p>Just got back from our weekend cruise to Mexico, on the Carnival Paradise. We had another great cruise thanks to Carnival, and their wonderful staff. I want to thank the O2 director, Jeanette on the Carnival Destiny who passed along my grandson&#8217;s name to the O2 director, Sean on Carnival Paradise, so that when my grandson arrived at the O2 club he was expected, and was warmly welcomed. He was allowed to join in all the O2 activities for the whole weekend even though he turned 18 on the 2nd day. He made lots of new friends.</p>
<p>I am still catching up on the blogs I missed over the weekend but I have noticed that you were kind enough to acknowledge my request for something special for my grandson on his birthday. Unfortunately the message didn&#8217;t get through to the staff on the Carnival Paradise as there was nothing there for him. We didn&#8217;t get to meet our room steward, so I had no chance to ask him or her if there was a gift from you&#8230;but I do appreciate the fact that you did try.</p>
<p>Anyway, back to work today so I can earn some money for my next cruise.</p>
<p>Thanks again&#8230;.Irene Garner<br />
(Hooked on Cruising)</p>
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		<title>By: Elaine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elaine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 13:22:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John,

Doug &amp; I live in Boynton Beach which is about 1 hour North of the Port of Miami and 1/2 North of Port Everglades.  If ever you want a really yummy bar-b-que, just give us a call.  You are always welcome at our house, it&#039;s an open invitation.   And, there will be a dress code ... You must wear something!!!  

Our best to the 3 of you...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John,</p>
<p>Doug &amp; I live in Boynton Beach which is about 1 hour North of the Port of Miami and 1/2 North of Port Everglades.  If ever you want a really yummy bar-b-que, just give us a call.  You are always welcome at our house, it&#8217;s an open invitation.   And, there will be a dress code &#8230; You must wear something!!!  </p>
<p>Our best to the 3 of you&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Marsha Breen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marsha Breen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 11:24:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John - please reply.  Glad to hear that the ships are doing a better job with enforcing the dress code.  Is this supposed to include the buffet area also?  For some reason, that doesn&#039;t seem to happen when I&#039;m sailing.  I haven&#039;t taken a cruise yet where I didn&#039;t see people coming in to the buffet that are barefoot, in just their bathing suits, and guys in their swim trunks (no shirt, no shoes).  Nothing whets your appetize better than sitting across from a guy with man boobs and hairy chest snarfing down their food while you&#039;re trying to look everywhere but directly at them.  Is there a reason these people are not approached by a staff member and asked to go put on a shirt and shoes? I&#039;m all for people being comfortable while they are cruising but there is a point where I think this goes way beyong appropriate.  Thanks for the daily laughs John.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John &#8211; please reply.  Glad to hear that the ships are doing a better job with enforcing the dress code.  Is this supposed to include the buffet area also?  For some reason, that doesn&#8217;t seem to happen when I&#8217;m sailing.  I haven&#8217;t taken a cruise yet where I didn&#8217;t see people coming in to the buffet that are barefoot, in just their bathing suits, and guys in their swim trunks (no shirt, no shoes).  Nothing whets your appetize better than sitting across from a guy with man boobs and hairy chest snarfing down their food while you&#8217;re trying to look everywhere but directly at them.  Is there a reason these people are not approached by a staff member and asked to go put on a shirt and shoes? I&#8217;m all for people being comfortable while they are cruising but there is a point where I think this goes way beyong appropriate.  Thanks for the daily laughs John.</p>
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